ECM sent me this post from The Public Discourse which explains a bit more about the two studies on gay parenting that were in the news last week. Some people are complaining that the study did not use enough long-term gay relationships. Miami, FL (PRWEB) November 28, -- "Only 4% of gay men over 40 are in loving, committed, long term relationships" says Paul Angelo MHA, MBA, gay matchmaker. One point of this website is to have a discussion about healthy lesbian relationships. Reasons Gay Male’s Relationships Seem More Stable.